Published February 7, 2012 | 
A lot of people ask me this question, “Please teach me how to impress a girl with a great first line”.
An opener is a line or routine used to have an excuse to talk to an Indian girl.
I have discovered an extremely simple, versatile and universal opener that can be used in every single context of beginning conversations with cute Indian girls.
I was in a large mall in Mumbai this weekend when I saw a girl about to walk past me who was the spitting image of my best mate’s girlfriend.
So I made eye contact, pointed at her and said: “Divya?” She stopped and looked at me “What?” and I said “You look just like my best friends girlfriend.” And as such, the Mistaken Identity Opener was born.
Afterwards, I began to talk to many girls using this opener. It dawned on me how powerful it was. Opening is the hardest part of swooping girls, yet it is the most inconsequential. It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it more than anything.
The Mistaken Identity Opener is the simplest opener ever conceived. It’s only one word, pick a female name and say it as a question to a random girl. It can be used anywhere, the street, a coffee shop, the bus stop or the train. It is universal. No matter what the context, the Mistaken Identity Opener works.
If you’ve ever seen a cute Indian girl while going about your day to day business, but did not know how to talk to her, then this is the solution for you!
First, you need to deliver it confidently. Hold eye contact and get your body language down pat. Stand proudly and keep your chin up. If the girl smiles after you tell her she looks like you’re friend’s girlfriend, or a female friend of yours or whatever, if her body language and/or facial expressions tell you that she’s receptive for a chat, talk to her about ANYTHING. Ask what she’s up to today, where’s she headed, comment on the book she’s reading or her clothes or her hair. If you can’t think of anything to say then say something along the lines of “I take it you don’t get that very often”. This can be used anywhere, at a local club or store or on a bus. It is the perfect way to chat up an Indian girl you otherwise wouldn’t have spoken too.
The opener is just an excuse to begin the conversation, once that’s over you’re going to have to pick a topic and talk about it. Talk about anything, it does not matter if it is about the weather. If she is interested in having a talk, then lines or threads of conversation will soon appear. It is important not to dream a conversation in your head before you do this, let the conversation happen naturally.
The Mistaken Identity Opener distills the opener to its core function, that of a pretense to begin an interaction.
I talk slowly and am completely calm and thinking on my feet. I feel completely in control so to speak, but up until I spit my opener, my brain is a heat seeking missile aimed straight for the Indian girl. I do not have the time to be creative in the seconds as I’m walking up to her. If I choose to compliment her, I use the stock lines “Hey, I think you’re cute.” or “Hey, you look lovely today” or something.
I no longer believe that going Direct and using compliments is the most effective way to begin a conversation with an Indian girl during the day. It scares the cat so to speak, and younger girls get way too nervous with them. Indian girls are quite shy as well, and as such opening a conversation with a compliment is not appropriate.
The Mistaken Identity Opener’s simplicity is what makes it the perfect opener for guys completely new to game. I taught it to a friend and he loved it. The Mistaken Identity Opener has plausible deniability, unlike begin to talk to the Indian girl with a compliment, where the poor guy will be nervous as hell putting his manhood on the line. And it’s only ONE WORD. It does not get any easier than this. After all, an opener is just a pretense to begin an interaction.
An extremely simple and versatile opener such as the Mistaken Identity Opener gets the job done fast. From there if she’s open to talking, all you need to do is keep talking about anything that comes to mind. If she’s not, then keep talking to see if she’ll open up, if she doesn’t then you may eject.
Hopefully with this new move, you will never sit there afraid to talk to a cute Indian girl again!
This one in particular stirs my loins
Published December 23, 2011 | One of the best ways to impress girls is to use funny humor and be funny. Being funny is associated with many positive characteristics such as charisma and social knowledge. However many guys are very stoic around girls and don’t let themselves relax. This results in them acting in a boring manner that completely turns girls off. The key to being funny is being comfortable and not being afraid of what the girl thinks. If you can learn how to impress girls with comedy you can create a lot of attraction.
Its especially hard to be funny in the initial few minutes of a conversation because you and her may feel a bit awkward. You’ll learn how to become funny with practice and your approaches and initial conversations will go better. As long as you focus on entertaining yourself and making yourself laugh the girl will think you’re funny.
Therefore the only way to impress a girl with humor is to impress yourself with humor. If you don’t feel confident about your humor I suggest that you check out comedy and improve courses. These kind of courses can help you develop a sense of humor and become a funnier person. They’re great for anybody who feels that they are a bit boring when talking to girls.
Published December 18, 2011 | Hey fellow reader, I”m guessing you go to an educational institute of some sort and know girls that you find attractive. You want to find a way to talk to them and impress them but can’t figure out how?
Its easier than you think. All you have to do is find a way to ask the girl a question and approach her. In a conservative country like India you have to be very careful in the way you approach the girl. The best way to approach is with a question to make sure you don’t scare of off. If you see her go up and say “Excuse me, did you know what the homework was for the last class” or some sort of similar question. After she answers the question ask her to elaborate on the topic. Just make sure you chat for a couple of minutes to get her comfortable with you.
After a couple minutes say “By the way, my name is ….”.
She’ll introduce herself to you. Change the topic on some sort of commonality, such as your college or teachers. If you go to the same school you’ll have a ton of commonalities. Use them to your advantage. After a 10-15 conversation ask what she’s doing that weekend and tell you two should hang out. If you’ve had a decent conversation she’ll most likely say yes.
Remember, keep it simple! Don’t try too hard and just have a normal conversation and keep changing the topic every few minutes. Since you guys both go to the same school you have infinite number of topics to discuss. The best way to impress her is by not trying to impress her. Girls hate it when you try to go out of your way to make an impression on them, when in reality they should be the one trying to one your approval.
Remember, you’re the prize! If you don’t believe that truly the girl will not be interested in you. Girls are interested in guys who are relaxed and confident, not guys who are desperate to meet girls. So just focus on having a relaxed conversation instead of trying to impress her and you’ll go a long way.
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